It’s time to have a little chat about one-night stands and how you can get lucky enough to land one. Though your mind may tell you that you’re pushing your luck by thinking you can get one, that couldn’t be further from the truth.
There are literally websites that exist to bring people together just so they can bang. It’s obviously not the way to a wedding, but it’s more normal for many people than you think.
It’s way less complicated, for one thing. There are no strings attached, and there’s no need to even think about commitment to each other. You can just hit it and quit it if that’s your thing.
Is It OK to Have One Night Stands?
This question is one of the most subjective ones out there. Do you disagree? Well, here’s another one to help you see the light. Is it OK to smoke?
If you’re a smoker, you may say yes because it’s a thing you do. You may also say no because you see it as an addiction that you can’t get rid of no matter how hard you try to.
If you’re not a smoker, you may say it is OK because people can do what they want. You may also say no because it’s harmful to both the smoker and the environment.
The thing is that none of those responses are fundamentally wrong. One-night stands are OK, depending on your perspective. Are you comfortable sharing the pleasurable and dopamine inducing world of sex with someone then pretending the person doesn’t exist the next day?
What Are the Best One Night Stand Apps?
Technology has given humans many things, and here’s just one of many of these gifts. There are websites and apps that you can use to your advantage to help you to get lucky and land a one-night stand. If you’re interested, here are some of the best ones available.
How to Get a Girl to Have a One Night Stand with You?
Before diving into this, you need to remember that many girls want a one-night stand too. Some of them may not give it much thought, but they’re OK with doing it. You just need to find out who those girls are and get them to do it with you.
Obviously, that’s a little easier said than done because girls aren’t exactly advertising, “get your one night stands here” on their foreheads. Getting one to go to bed with you though, is all in how you make her feel.
The first thing is to get her relaxed and comfortable with your speech. Listen to her but own the conversation. Don’t ever give her the impression that you don’t know what you want.
You also need to be engaging and make her laugh as it increases the relaxation level. As she gets more relaxed, you can break the wall of touch slowly. It could be her hair, her shoulder, or her arm, but don’t overdo it. The point is to get her comfortable.
At that point, you can get closer to her and interact with her from within her space. Dropping flirty talk in here is a great way to proceed. Also, never make her feel as if she’s being convinced to do anything. While you may be working to a certain outcome, she needs to feel like she wants it.
Assuming you do all this right and she’s interested in a one-night stand with you, then just let nature take its course and enjoy. Just make sure you have somewhere to go.
Why It’s So Hard to Have a One Night Stand?
Many men struggle with successfully landing a one-night stand because they approach it the wrong way.
It’s a single sexual encounter, but you don’t need to wear it on your sleeve and let the world know from the onset. Even women who are looking for one can instantly get turned off when a man behaves as if he’s an animal on the prowl.
She’s not less of a person because she’s a means to sexual gratification for you. At least try to behave like there’s a human in there.
The flip side of this is that many men take the approach they would for dating. Those approaches were meant to form relationships, so don’t try to do it that way.
A bonus point is to avoid doing daytime dates. They don’t usually lead to any sex time anyways.
What About If You Live at Home?
If you live at home (i.e., with your parents), things can get a bit tricky. The last thing you want is your dad to hear some random girl calling someone “daddy” in his house. Though you could end up making him proud. Who knows?
The point is that having sex with your parents around is a no-go. So, how do you work out a one-night stand in such a scenario?
Well, the formula here is a simple one. Always be ready to get a room at a guest house, a motel, or a hotel. When you can see that it’s about to go down, then go home if you know your parents are out and not expected back anytime soon. If they are home, just get a room somewhere.
How to Have a One Night Stand on Vacation in Vegas?
What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas, right? If you’re on vacation there, that makes one-night stands even easier since you theoretically never have to see the person again.
You have time during a vacation, so use it to go out and use apps that help you to find locals for this purpose. Also, don’t be shy to say that you’re on vacation and looking to have a memorable time.
Who knows? You may just get something sexy to remember. Just stay relaxed and try as many people as you wish to improve the odds of success.
How to Get Over a One Night Stand?
A one-night stand should never be something you have to get over based on how it works. However, sometimes you get the best sex ever or a cool person, and it’s hard to let go.
The best thing you can do for yourself (if the person doesn’t feel the same) is to force it until it becomes natural. Cut off communication and go back to your life.
It was only one night, so getting over it may not take as long as you think. Here’s a video with some more information on one-night stands.